12. Find a rhythm.
If you’ve got music playing, using the beat to help you punctuate the experience with precise swats at regular intervals. Change it up after a short time. Getting hit on all the downbeats of “Despacito” isn’t nearly as erotic as you might think.
The way you hold your spanking hand can make a big difference to how a slap feels and even sounds. By cupping your palm and keeping your fingers together you’ll increase the depth of the sound produced without changing the pain level. A flatter palm makes more of a classic slapping noise, and adds to the pain level of a swat. You can tweak the sting further by licking your hand before each swat-or, if you want to infuse a touch a sadism, having your sub lick it for you.
14. Alternate between spanks, squeezes, and rubs.
A mixture of soft and stinging sensations will make for a more dynamic and memorable erotic spanking session. In between sets of spanks, change up patterns, alter your hand shape and power, employ caresses (grab the rear and caress it). Feel the warmth you’ve generated with your hands or your. Cup their undercarriage, give it a squeeze. Always alternate between various sensations to make your game more unpredictable and exciting for the sub.
15. Employ restraint(s).
Restraints aren’t a must for an erotic spanking session, but they are likely to add a little something extra to the dom/sub dynamic while keeping the bottom (and their bottom) securely in place. Silk scarves and neckties are great, if you happen to have them in easy reach. But you needn’t look any farther than Amazon to find a treasure trove of restraints with which to truss up your special someone like a rib roast.
16. Add dirty talk.
If you’ve assumed submissive and dominant roles and the former is being spanked by the other, it’s reasonable to assume that a “punishment” is being meted out. If they have indeed been “bad,” the sub needs to be reminded of what they’ve done. This is a great opportunity to say something deliciously dirty. ae0fcc31ae342fd3a1346ebb1f342fcb
17. Raid the house for more implements.
If you’ve played with all the variables of with your hand, give some other household implements a try. You can flick rubber bands into your partner’s cheeks, or you can hit them with a spatula, a flyswatter, a ping pong paddle-anything of the sort. But as the dom, make sure you start gently and slowly with each new implement.
18. Invest in some gear.
If and when you’ve decided to incorporate erotic spanking into your sex life, it might be in your best interest to invest in some gear made for the purpose of provoking pain and pleasure. These objects are based on implements that, in days of yore, were used to inflict real pain on unruly schoolboys, insubordinate Royal Navy sailors, and horses that wouldn’t run fast enough.
With a paddle, the thudding sensation similar to a hand-but much more intense. A flogger consists of a whip-like handle with multiple thick tails. It’s typically made from leather and delivers an intense, thud-like pain with every strike. You can level up even further by pickup up a riding crop-but beware: the slightest arm movement will produce an aggressive bruise, and the flap of leather at the tip will create red marks on the skin.
19. Never forget the aftercare.
After an intense erotic spanking session, the bottom may slip into what’s called “sub space,” a state of change brought on by an influx of adrenaline and endorphins. Sub space can be euphoric for some, and reduce others to a shaking, blubbering wreck. As the dom, be ready to provide cuddles, http://onlinedatingsingles.net/it/mocospace-recensione/ reassurance, a drink of water, a soft warm blanket, and definitely some chocolate by way of a warm down.